Wednesday, May 18, 2011

CONFIDENCE, CHARISMA, CHARM= LETHAL MIX.

You know how there are those extremely irritating people who just seem to OOOOZE the above mentioned?
Yeah. I know a few of them as well.
You'll be at a party or out for drinks with a whole crew & then 'they' decide to show up in all their glory. 
All they have to do is walk in & instantly they command the attention of the entire room.
All this before they've even taken off their coat.
It's not necessarily what they wear or anything visual.
It seems to be an aura that follows them around.
They have an 'air' about themselves, it's self
confidence, but not cockiness. 
There is a difference between someone confident
& someone cocky.
(FYI it is easy to distinguish between the two)
You can't help but be intriguied by them.
They're always smiling, always friendly, always chatting & laughing, know everyone & everyone is always happy to see them.
And on top of all of that not 1 bad word can be spoken of them.
You can't buy confidence, charisma or charm, so where
does it come from?
Can it be learned? I think to an extent it can be.
Putting into practice is a completely different story.
It's something that needs to come from within.
Or as these guys say...
So you should probably just 'Fake it 'til you make it.'
Or instead of getting with the negatives in life & worrying obsessively about what other people may think about you, be happy with your self.
Don't be intimidated by it.
Know yourself.
If you are happy with you, then you will be one of those enviable people who oooze confidence, charisma & charm.
And you didnt even have to break a sweat!
xox

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