L O V E~

Before you start snickering... I'll say it first...

I am definitely not an expert on this subject, that is for damn sure!
Constantly doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing & failing everytime = me!

(hey... atleast I'm consistent!)

Now that I've got that out of the way, you can stop laughing at me.

Today's blog isn't about my life/experiences.

It's about friends getting engaged :) being adorable & loved up.

In the last week, i have heard of 4 couples getting engaged.

FOUR COUPLES!

That's 8 people, 4 sparkly engagement rings, 4 nervous guys, 4 proposals, 4 ecstatic, amazing, beautiful women... & the guys are pretty good too!

To say that there is so much love in the air right now...

is a massive understatement.

It seems there is love in the air & the water & the food in Melbourne right now.

Everyone is getting an injection of it in their lives right now in one way or another.

Whether it's friends getting engaged & you're over the moon happy for them or if it is in fact YOU!

It's beautiful! There's an overflow of it.

I am seriously losing track of who's single, who's dating, who's engaged, who just got married & who's expecting their first kid!

It's actually ridiculous. Ridiculously good, ofcourse.

So this is a celebration for them!

To all the beautiful, gorgeous, loved up couples out there...

CONGRATULATIONS!

Huge hugs & kisses galore to you from the bottom of my heart.

Love. Love. Love. And happiness. To infinity.

xox

CONFIDENCE, CHARISMA, CHARM= LETHAL MIX.

You know how there are those extremely irritating people who just seem to OOOOZE the above mentioned?

Yeah. I know a few of them as well.

You'll be at a party or out for drinks with a whole crew & then 'they' decide to show up in all their glory. 

All they have to do is walk in & instantly they command the attention of the entire room.
All this before they've even taken off their coat.

It's not necessarily what they wear or anything visual.

It seems to be an aura that follows them around.

They have an 'air' about themselves, it's self
confidence, but not cockiness. 
There is a difference between someone confident
& someone cocky.
(FYI it is easy to distinguish between the two)
You can't help but be intriguied by them.
They're always smiling, always friendly, always chatting & laughing, know everyone & everyone is always happy to see them.
And on top of all of that not 1 bad word can be spoken of them.
You can't buy confidence, charisma or charm, so where
does it come from?
Can it be learned? I think to an extent it can be.
Putting into practice is a completely different story.
It's something that needs to come from within.
Or as these guys say...

So you should probably just 'Fake it 'til you make it.'
Or instead of getting with the negatives in life & worrying obsessively about what other people may think about you, be happy with your self.
Don't be intimidated by it.
Know yourself.
If you are happy with you, then you will be one of those enviable people who oooze confidence, charisma & charm.
And you didnt even have to break a sweat!
xox